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| The Womb Issue

Words | Lindsay Heiman

When House Speaker Mike Johnson quietly gutted reproductive coverage for military families, it wasn’t just a policy reversal. It was a reminder that in post-Roe America, progress isn’t permanent. It’s conditional.

With Republicans controlling the House and Donald Trump back in the White House, the consequences of powerful men making decisions about women’s bodies are no longer theoretical. Call this regression what it is: the Trump Effect.

The Trump Effect

We’re the first generation of American women with fewer rights than our grandmothers.

Regulating women is an American classic. It has always been part of the mythology behind making the country “great” again. Technically, it’s 2026. Spiritually, we’re hovering somewhere between 1950 and 1973. The current political moment feels less like governance than performance. Rage tweets substitute for policy. Temper tantrums replace leadership. Trump didn’t just bulldoze Jackie Kennedy’s historic Rose Garden—he replaced it with a UFC-style fighting ring. If that sounds like satire, it isn’t. That actually happened. And like all cultural rot, it doesn’t stop at the White House. It metastasizes. The male podcast stratosphere has happily stepped into the vacuum. Performative masculinity, conspiratorial thinking, and grievance dressed up as insight now circulate as “common sense.” But the country does not need more unhinged monologues packaged as wisdom. It needs adults. It needs intelligence, science, and leadership—not attention-seeking influencers in dire need of therapy.

Which brings us to Congresswoman Sara Jacobs, one of the few adults still standing in the room.

In a Congress increasingly run like a reality show, Jacobs feels almost subversive. “I would rather my constituents trust me than think I agree with them on everything,” she told me. In a political culture addicted to applause, choosing trust over affirmation is quietly radical.

Jacobs is both feminine and unshrinking, empathetic and stern. She doesn’t cower, and she doesn’t yell. Unlike colleagues who treat the House floor like an audition tape for cable news, Jacobs doesn’t confuse being abrasive with being effective. “I did not think when I first got here that we would be having the fights that we’re having to have,” she said.

“We are literally fighting for things that I thought were settled.”

In her first term, Roe v. Wade was overturned. Soon after, Jacobs and her colleagues had to introduce the Right to Contraception Act because, incredibly, contraception is now on the chopping block too. This is the moment we’re in. Jacobs has responded by doing something that still feels oddly radical in Congress (speaking openly about women’s bodies). “I was actually the first person in House history to talk about my own period on the House floor,” she shared. She was also the first to talk about her own use of Plan B on the House floor. “These are normal experiences that 50 percent of the population experiences,” she said.

“And if we’re not talking about it, we’re certainly not making good policy about it.”

Her approach to reproductive care—from protecting IVF access for military families to preventing the government from harvesting women’s period data—isn’t about moral chest-beating or clout. It’s about outcomes. It’s about understanding how power actually works. In a Democratic Party still searching for its footing, Jacobs offers something refreshingly unfashionable: competence. It’s no surprise she was recently named one of New York Magazine’s Top 25 Young Democrats to Watch. With the 2026 midterms approaching, the Democratic Party is openly searching for its next identity. The pendulum has swung hard into far-right territory, and many leftists are itching to yank it just as forcefully in the other direction. The impulse to “burn it all down” is understandable after years of institutional sabotage. America survived an attempted coup. But understandable does not mean sustainable.

The Democratic Party deserves politicians not taking a page out of Trump’s playbook and burning it all down. There’s loud, and then there’s effective. There’s productive, and there’s destructive. America desperately needs someone who can differentiate between the two.

The Human Price Tag

Enter Lydia.

She is an Army wife, and her infertility isn’t a medical mystery. It is tied directly to her husband’s service, a marriage shaped by deployments, long separations, and the impossible task of timing biology around military orders. IVF was how they planned to build their family. That changed when Speaker Johnson removed the IVF provision from the National Defense Authorization Act, sidelining medical consensus in favor of culture-war signaling.

By reframing reproductive healthcare as an ideological threat (AKA woke), Johnson shifted the focus away from families like Lydia’s and toward rhetoric designed to inflame rather than govern. The language did its job. The consequences landed elsewhere.

Jacobs refused to play along.

She didn’t frame the moment as a moral spectacle or partisan showdown. She framed it for what it was: a leadership failure with a human price tag. When lawmakers turn reproductive care into political theater, real people are the ones left absorbing the cost.

Jacobs recast IVF access as a readiness issue. “We are training these service members, investing in them, and then pushing them out when they want to start families,” she said.

Lydia’s story is not an outlier. Without IVF coverage under TRICARE, military families face impossible choices: pay tens of thousands of dollars out of pocket, abandon the idea of having children, or leave the military entirely for jobs that offer reproductive healthcare.

“That is bad for military readiness and bad for our country,” Jacobs added.

Jacobs is not interested in burning institutions down for applause or watering her values down for consensus. She is interested in making the system work again, even when that work is slow, unglamorous, and politically inconvenient. Reproductive care isn’t just one of her issues. It’s her proof point.

Moving Across the Aisle

That clarity allows Jacobs to move across the aisle in ways many of her peers cannot. By grounding reproductive care in readiness, retention, and fairness, she meets conservative colleagues on terrain they already claim to care about: military families, national security, and fiscal responsibility. The language shifts, but the values don’t. It isn’t a compromise. It’s a translation. “I’m not going to say something I don’t believe,” Jacobs told me. “I might say it in a slightly different way because I want people to be able to hear it.” Her goal isn’t to win the internet. It’s to build trust—one of the only currencies left in a political era defined by suspicion. “In this moment, when trust in institutions and leaders is so low, building and maintaining trust is my guiding principle,” she said. That commitment puts Jacobs at odds with a growing strain of American politics that treats restraint as capitulation and civility as weakness. For some, restraint reads as surrender. They hear “billion-dollar corporation” and jump straight to Molotov cocktail or Luigi Mangione. Jacobs rejects that instinct, not because she’s sentimental about Washington, but because she’s focused on what actually moves people. “Often what feels the best is not always the most effective thing,” she said. “People don’t change their minds because they’re being yelled at.” In Jacobs’s experience, outrage can feel like action without producing any. And when she turns to her own experience, the same logic applies.

On the Record

Jacobs starts from the assumption that women don’t need their reality narrated back to them. When she froze her eggs in her early thirties, she spoke about the cost, the logistics, and the physical toll. She joked to the New York Times about hormone injections making her boobs hurt—a comment so unremarkable in women’s lives it barely qualifies as news anywhere except Capitol Hill. “This is stuff my friends talk about all the time,” she said. “It shouldn’t be shocking.” And yet, inside Congress, it was. Not because the experience was rare, but because saying it plainly still felt improper. An institution that tiptoes around the word “period” nevertheless writes policy governing fertility, abortion, and medical privacy. The disconnect is obvious. Jacobs refuses to legislate at arm’s length. She talks about reproductive health live on Instagram, sometimes while doing her makeup—not to be cute, but to be clear. Half the country menstruates. The shock isn’t the subject matter. It’s that Congress still treats women’s bodies as taboo. And, Jacobs added, “If we’re not talking about it, we’re certainly not making good policy about it.” That style didn’t come out of nowhere. Jacobs learned it up close from someone who can read a room faster than most people can enter it. As a mentee of Nancy Pelosi, Jacobs absorbed an unparalleled model of leadership. America’s first woman to hold the gavel, Pelosi is known for her discipline, her vote counting, and her refusal to confuse moral clarity with public chest-beating. Pelosi didn’t give Jacobs a catchphrase. She gave her a compass.

On her hardest days, Jacobs can still hear Pelosi asking her…

“What’s your why?”

Knowing her why has made Jacobs difficult to pigeonhole. Reproductive care doesn’t fit neatly into America’s political binaries. Military families who serve a conservative country but need a progressive policy. LGBTQ+ families whose right to build families remains contested. A post-Roe America where “freedom” now means navigating insurance barriers and state lines.

Jacobs lives in that overlap. She doesn’t pander left. She doesn’t shrink to make moderates comfortable. She governs.

The Other Option

Meanwhile, some of her colleagues have chosen a different path. Congresswoman Nancy Mace has built a brand around delegitimizing IVF, dehumanizing trans people, and peddling cruelty as candor. It’s not new, it’s just louder and sports a red hat.

When Mace tweeted out the number of a plastic surgeon to mock her Jewish colleague, Jacobs didn’t flinch. Head held high. Nose included. She had work to do.

That restraint extends to how she approaches LGBTQ+ rights. When House debates start derailing, she doesn’t try to out-shout anyone. She brings her younger brother—who is trans—to meet conservative colleagues so they can’t pretend trans people are abstract or theoretical. A goofy kid in Mickey Mouse socks tends to do what no talking point ever will. Gender-affirming care only becomes controversial when it applies to trans people. When it looks like Botox, hormone therapy, or hair restoration, it disappears from the conversation entirely. The hypocrisy is obvious. Reproductive care isn’t symbolic. It’s the government deciding how much freedom you actually get.

Fixing the House from the Inside

These aren’t separate issues. They are pressure points within the same system, and Jacobs treats them accordingly. She doesn’t chase applause or burn institutions down for catharsis. She works inside the wreckage, fixing what’s broken, translating values into outcomes, and insisting that governance means accounting for who gets pushed out when policy fails quietly.

American politics is addicted to spectacle and scorched-earth thinking, and yet Sara Jacobs is making a quieter bet. That progress doesn’t come from burning the house down. It comes from fixing it, room by room, because people still have to live inside it.

That isn’t sexy politics. It’s sustainable politics.

And right now, it may be the most radical thing the Democratic Party has to offer.

Lindsay Heiman

Lindsay Heiman

Lindsay Heiman is an LA-based TV writer, screenwriter, copywriter, speech writer, author, and opinion editorialist. But ultimately she goes with: award-winning comedy writer and self-projecting millennial who wrote a children’s book about her own dog, Duck, having an identity crisis. It may be textbook Freud, but hey, it sold.

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Lindsay Heiman

Lindsay Heiman

Lindsay Heiman is an LA-based TV writer, screenwriter, copywriter, speech writer, author, and opinion editorialist. But ultimately she goes with: award-winning comedy writer and self-projecting millennial who wrote a children’s book about her own dog, Duck, having an identity crisis. It may be textbook Freud, but hey, it sold.

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